It is time to come up with some new strategies. This is where counseling can help–whether from a professional, Veteran peer counselor, clergy, etc. Already been doing that? Time to switch. Try a counselor with a different approach, or ask about trying a different medication. Something will work. No one is meant to go on suffering.
If the Veteran is still suffering, it means they haven’t found the right help yet, but it’s out there. Learn about more options for getting help.